The Emotional mind, as I have learned, is a mind whose decisions and whose actions are influenced by emotion. To the degree of which depends on where you fit on the scale.
The Logical mind is a mind whose decisions and actions are influenced by how the mind determines the logic or rationality of the situation. Also, to the degree if which depends on where you fit on that scale.
People fall all over on this spectrum - depending on their circumstances. Some have a full-left emotional mind, which causes them to behave based solely on emotion. This can be very detrimental to sound reasoning, tantrums, and a huge variety of different emotional characteristics. Some have a full-right logical mind, which causes them to tune out any form of emotion, and make decisions based solely on how logical or reasonable, or rational a solution may be, without consideration of the emotional part, which seems rather useless and "illogical" to them. The "ideal" between the two to reach some degree of balance is, of course, a balanced position in the middle - where emotion and logic intertwine and create a healthy way of thinking - in a perfect world, anyway.
And now, we enter in Armstrongism.
The entire premise of Armstrongism was rooted in emotion. This may seem contradictory at first glance. After all, Armstrongism seemed to denounce and squash any kind of emotion with the intensity of a steel crusher in many cases - such as, when you feel inspiring music, squelch it - hold the inappropriate applause. Yet the emotion that they used to bring in the converts to their way of thinking was a very profound emotion - fear. This swung people, and quickly, to the emotional mindset (even the logical minded people.)
The decisions made then, when entering, and in armstrongism had the element of emotionalism involved - even when it did not seem like it was emotionalism. There was always thoughts like:
- Am I going to qualify? (Fear you will not, and end up destroyed.)
- Am I trying hard enough? (Fear you are not, end up a slacker, and end up destroyed.)
- Should I do what I'm told, even though I don't think it's right? (For fear of disobedience, and end up put out of the church and destroyed.)
- Did I just break a commandment? (For fear you've angered God, and end up destroyed.)
- Am I really trying hard enough for grace to cover me for my law breaking? (same story.)
Fear is not always logical. Fear is enhanced by believing the person or the thing making you fearful. For instance, look at the claims that Herbert Armstrong always made.
- I speak for Christ. I am an Apostle. I have divine authority. What I say goes.
- I have the power to loose and to bind. My power is from God.
- I have the only true gospel that has ever been preached in 1900 years. I am God's chosen vessel.
- Disobeying me and the ministers is the same as disobeying Christ.
- If you aren't obeying the Government of God (me), you aren't really in the Church.
- Slacker, coward, lukewarm, unconverted, slothful, rebellious, lazy, selfish, deceived, covetous, idolatrous (and many, many more.)
One might think they're being logical because of Herbert's "evidence". But when looking at Herbert's way of reasoning in his booklets, papers, and writings - it is riddled FULL of emotionalism throughout. He had catchphrases that he always used with his logic to demean, and beat down, and insult the intelligence and logical reasoning of those who would read his material. It doesn't take but a few paragraphs into his writings to read them, and see how often he talked down to his readers.
- "You may be surprised to know".
- "Do you?"
- "Now listen to GOD'S teaching."
- "This is what you should have done."
- "LISTEN! Understand this."
- "Read it ALL"
- "NOTICE it!"
So when it comes to the emotional mind vs. the logical mind in Armstrongism - how do we possibly begin to reason in balance? If the goal truly is balance.
What I've done, and what works for me, is to:
- Breathe, relax, and break down what's being said - factually.
- Rule out the "what if's". "What if's" rarely become the real story.
- Find out what the real truth of the matter is - not what you have been told it is, or think it is.
- Factually - there has not been one prophecy they have uttered that has come true.
- Factually - their claims of the World Tomorrow have not happened.
- Factually - there are many ministers who have been verified as having unchristian fruits.
This is what has worked for me. It may not work for you exactly, and nothing I say should be construed as advice you should necessarily do - I'm not a professional, and anything I recommend is only what I have done, and has helped me - and you do at your own risk (I'm saying, this may not do a darn thing for you.)
Learning the logical mind, the emotional mind, and ridding yourself of the influence of FEAR is, without any doubt, one of the most important things that I have learned since undergoing de-programming from the toxic cultish influences of Armstrongism in my life.
May God grant you the healing and the ability to grow onward in blessing in your life.
No comments:
Post a Comment
All Comments are Moderated and will be reviewed by SHT. Comment unto others as you would have others comment unto you. :)